Hey guys!!! Tomorrow nite (Monday) is Poker nite!!! I did some research and looks like the best place to hold this event is Games.com. They have Texas Hold’em and it allows me to create a password protected room so only us MFC peeps will be in there. It looks like you do need to sign up, however if you use AOL/Aim/Yahoo/Google/Facebook, it allows you to log in with that. So, for anyone who is interested in poker nite- here are the basic rules:

1)Only premium account users on MFC will be allowed to play. Sorry basics!
2)This event WILL be strip poker- at least on my end. If you have a webcam and wish to join in on the nudey fun, then feel free
3)I need to re-aquaint myself with the general rules/play of the game, but the general idea is this:
- winner of a round can tell me what item of clothing to remove (I’ll be wearing a full outfit btw, more to take off hehe)
-losers have to either tip me the amount of tokens they lost, or transfer them to the winner of the round so he can spend them as he wishes. (or we can have a set token amount to tip, in case the bets get a bit too high lol)
-once I’m naked, we’ll end that round and start a new one for others to join in if they so wish.
4)And obviously, only premiums with tokens should be playing…gotta have something to lose

If there is anything you need me to add, or if you want to give me some advice (its been awhile since I’ve played, and as much as I love getting naked, I really want to beat you guys haha) then please feel free to contact me

So to sum up:
-Monday nite poker, starting sometime in the evening. I’ll Facebook, Twitter and post here the general time that I’ll be on once I know.
-Poker table will be hosted on Games.com. Go there, sign up for an account if you don’t already use AOL/Aim/Facebook/Google or Yahoo.
-Only premium MFC account holders WITH TOKENS will be allowed to join in.
-Event will be strip poker- feel free to get nakey with me.

K I think thats it! lol. I hope you guys all come out and have fun! I think it’ll be a blast. Oh, and someone bring some beer

I’m not gonna be online tonite guys….didn’t sleep much last nite and had a day full of meeting clients, editing, and dealing with business crap…I’m so beat. I need a good nites sleep badly, but am still going on stuff I need to catch up on I miss you guys though, and will be back on tomorrow afternoon!!!

News: I WILL BE STARTING UP MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL AGAIN! I’ve been wanting to for awhile and really need your guys’ input and help. My idea for the channel is to offer a modern-day womans opinion on love, relationships, sex, life, food, whatever. If you need something answered by a cute canuck, then send me questions! I’ll keep it all anonymous so no worries about having everyone know that you secretly crush on Paul Gross, or need advice on how to get your penor unstuck from your mattress or something….lawl. jks. But seriously, email me your questions and ponderings to: spexyashleigh@gmail.com!

K thats it kids, I’m off to finish my crapola and hit the hay….I needz sum sleep. <3

*headdesk*

Gooood morning! Actually, its good afternoon now lol. I’m drinking my morning diet coke (I know, bad Ashleigh!) and comprising my grocery list. So sexy. Trying to think of new stuff to cook thats affordable because I’m getting bored with food bigtime. I’m going to make my own souvlaki this week I think….so excited. I had souvlaki at this little Greek restaurant in my hometown when I visited…I actually used to work there when I was a teenager, and missed the souvlaki, so I went back and it was friggin yummy. Mmmm.

I want to say a big thank you to the boys who came out last nite and had fun with me! I got spoiled so much and I still can’t believe all the love I got!!! I had a blast guys You all are so sweet, and so awsome…I don’t know why…but you are!

I’m going to be on later tonite as always, just gotta go out in a bit and get my grocery shopping done first…I am outta foodz lol. Oh and I wanted to ask – can you guys think of anything I should tweak or add to my blog? I want to make it pure awsome but since I’m a web newbie, not sure what else it should have. I know, more vids and pics lol. I’ll work on that…but what else? Let me know!

Here are some pics from my trip home!!! (obviously can’t put in pics with certain ppl in them…don’t want to piss off anyone who doesn’t want to be featured on a half adult site lol)

Abbers getting ready to fly!!!

My brother stocked the hotel sink quite well

moi, getting ready for the wedding

all ready and lookin spexy!

me and two of my brothers, crunkin it up!

Kinda jumped into that photo there haha

One of the sad parts to my visit, was having to say goodbye to my childhood home. My parents built their “retirement home” and sold what I have considered “home” for the last 20 yrs. As you can see, I literally did grow up in the middle of nowhere lol.

And finally, my brothers new puppy, her name is Toto!!! She spent most of the afternoon on my lap haha.

Those are all I have for now, they were shot on my tiny point and shoot camera. I have lots of files left on my DSLRS that I need to size down so expect another post soon with more pixors! <3

I hate to even have to make this post. I really really do.

Since my return back today, I’ve gotten more than one PM, email, whatever….demanding to know “where I was” the last week and why I’ve neglected to “check in”. I was given attitude, and was made to feel like I wasn’t doing good enough of a job as a camgirl for not being on cam, or contacting individual guys to let them know of my whereabouts.

I’m sorry. I don’t want to have to even say this stuff, because common sense would tell anyone what I’m about to say, but apparantly it needs to be done.

Number one: I am not anyones girlfriend. I’m not anyones wife. I do not appreciate being treated like I’m running around on you, or like I need to have someone keeping tabs on me/needing to know where I am every single day. If I wanted someone to be on my ass about where I am, then I’d get a boyfriend. A jealous one at that.

Number two: Even IF you are curious where I’ve disappeared to, I can GUARANTEE that all you have to do is check my blog, my twitter, my facebook…ANY one of the things that I’ve set up in order to give you more access to me outside of camming. To the gentleman who claimed to “be one of my biggest fans, therefore should be treated with more respect when it comes to my disappearing on him”: if you really WERE one of my biggest fans, you would have checked my blog at least once in the last week and a half that I’ve been gone. Had you done that, then you would have seen that I posted that I was flying to Toronto on business and wouldn’t be back until this week. So before you start running yer mouth about my not checking in with you, how about you check in with me first because trust me, I DO make the effort (more effort than alot of camgirls) to include you guys in my life and let you know whats going on with me.

And thirdly: Do not treat me like I don’t deserve to have a life outside of MFC. I don’t want to hear “oh but I wasn’t able to get off because you left and were gone all week.” I’m sorry…but my responsibility to be sexy and provide fun, dirty entertainment is ONLY a responsibility when I’m actually online. I don’t want to get emails saying “where are you? my dick is hard- GET ONLINE NOW” ….and I don’t want guilt trips when I finally do make it online. I have a life. A busy one at that. You never see me EVER emailing you to say “I need you to come online and get a pvt show with me because my hydro bill is due!!!” I love getting naughty with you guys. But when the cam is turned off, and my other responsibilities take over, I’d like the ability to do what I need to do (even if it is just taking a nite off and having a bit of ‘me’ time) without feeling like I’m doing you some horrible injustice for not having my snatch online when your dick commands it.

Ugh. Again, I’m sorry for having to spew this verbal crap. I don’t want to have to bring anyone down, especially those who are incredibly cool with me and my life. I just had a few awsomely lame emails waiting in my inbox after this weekend, and while I was online today, got a few pm’s that were sent in a not-so-nice manner. I work very hard to try to give you guys as much of me that I can, and maintain a facebook, a twitter, my email account, my mfc inbox …all outside of actually being online. Which is all outside of my other career, my pets, my friends, my personal life…I had a job to do, that was halfway across the country, and because I chose to take a bit of time to head up north to see my family (that I hadn’t seen in nearly two years and lived so far out in the boonies that they don’t have net access for me to “check in”) I wasn’t able to be online, or do my best responding to emails and stuff. I did what I could, and if I’ve offended anyone by not being prompt enough, or for causing you to have to bate to actual porn, or another camgirl (god forbid)…then I’m sorry. This is the last time I’ll address this issue, and if I get this kind of crap again from anyone, expect to be banned/ignored. I love my boys, the ones who appreciate me. I don’t have time to deal with whiny children who turn into douchebags when I’m not around for a few days. Sheesh.

ANYHOOOOOO. I just watched the Grey’s finale. Holy effin crap INTENSE!!! I was actually on the edge of my seat the entire time…great episode. That show can be kinda lame throughout the season, but if there’s one thing they’re good at, its season finales that make you either cry, or go WTF. lol. Loves it! Anyways, I’m done this blog entry. Again, I’m sorry to have to do this, but its easier to post it publically than have to send this message out to half a dozen asshats lol. I lurv you guys for being understanding with my absense last week, and no worries, I’ll be making up for lost time this week!!

Hey guys! I’m back from my trip home! It was such a great weekend…I had so much fun and it was so awsome to catch up with family. I’ll be posting some pics from the weekend later on, but for now I just wanted to say hi and that I missed you guys so bad! I hope you guys had a great weekend…we’ll be catching up soon!

Gahhhh I hate stress. Today is filled with stress. I have a list thats about 100 things long that I need to take care of before my flight. I was able to run out super early and grab my shoes (fit perfectly!!) but came home and left the rest of my errands til this afternoon since nothing was open at 7am when I picked up my shoes from UPS. But my friend, who was supposed to pick me up and take me out (needed a bra, some batteries for my flashes, had to pick up a prescription, buy dog food for Bella’s dogsitter etc) decided to call me and pick a fight. WTF? I was supposed to go out with him last nite for some wings but called him and told him I couldn’t because I had so much to do and pack and whatever and now he’s pissed. So he didn’t pick me up. So now I’m like “guhh ok?” because I need to get my shiz done and no one else is available. I don’t have the time to bus it around the city, so I’m kinda just sitting here wishing I had a car. I think I’m gonna cave and get one…not sure how…or when…but I’m getting tired of being stranded lol. My ex had a car that I used but now that he’s not here, I don’t have access to a car. Boo. Anyone wanna buy me one? lol jks.

But seriously, I’m overwhelmed. I needed to blog and vent. I fucked up my desk bigtime too. I’ve learned over the last few days that ants getting into apartment buildings is common in this province, so I’ve had ants in my bathroom and in my office. I’ve never dealt with this issue (maybe someone can help me?) but I just sprayed down my desk with some sort of generic cleaner thinking that would kill them. Well….it killed the ones on my desk alright, but left the surface of my desk all blistered and wierd. I’m such a newb when it comes to this stuff…so my desk is fugly now Guess it can’t take moisture. So I’m stressed about it, since I just bought it and I have a huge list of things to do (including taking Bella to the dogsitter, my keys to the catsitter, packing, getting my photo gear together, sorting out my flight itinerary and pickup details with my mom, along with all of the errands I mentioned before) so I’m overwhelmed and crying. I’m lame I know. I hate travelling, I hate stress.

I won’t be making it online tonite for obvious reasons…I wish I could but I can’t. There’s just no time….but I will have my iphone on me all weekend so email me, or FB me, or whatever…I’ll be tweeting all weekend and posting pix so check back to see how things are going!!! xoxo

Oh and send your sanity vibes my way. I need some.

I updated my blog again. Got sick of how “busy” the last one looked so I simplified. Actually….I didn’t. A lovely gent that I found on Kijiji helped me out, so if you’re reading this right now – you rock my freakin socks!!!

I’ve been gone all week, lots of personal dramz, and been helping my niece with some stuff …can’t talk about that for privacy reasons but she’s had a big week so I’ve been helping her with it. I’ll be back tonite boys, and will be on all week until my trip home to Ontario…I miss you all dearly and hope you’ve been enjoying the new, spexified blog. Please join my forums, and get some action happenin!

Oh and to all the boys who spoiled me last week – I have vids for most of you! (still waiting on some packages to arrive) So find me tonite!

Alot of boys have been emailing me asking about my dress and if they can see it! I have it, its hanging up in my living room (trying to prevent wrinklage – although I know it’ll be inevitable once I pack it in my suitcase lol) but I’m waiting on my new shoes to arrive before I take some pics and show it off on cam. I want to show you the whole outfit, including new handbag and earrings and all that shiz. I ordered the shoes from Aldo and tracking said they were supposed to be here yesterday, but they didn’t get dropped off so I’m guessing Monday? Anyhoo, I haz to go make dinner (steak!) but I’ll see you later!

I’m trying to get a new template for this site/blog. I like the one I have but its too….”busy” for me. I want something simpler. So I’m trying to work on this one theme/template I found that I love but am having trouble with so if there are any wordpress genius’s that wanna help a girl out – hit me up lol.

I spent today catching up on vids and pics for you guys! I was able to get my dress but I likely have to get it altered…waiting on my shoes to arrive. I found a great pair that are comfy and have a heel, but they were out of my size so they ordered me some and should be here by Friday they said. So I’m waiting to see if the heels make the dress fine, length wise. If its still too long, then it’ll be altered but I’m gonna show it off when I’m on cam next and I’ll be posting pics for sure! Its super hot!

I want to take the time to thank a mystery man- I got a super cute pair of Betsey Johnson sunglasses purchased for me off my wishlist and they arrived yesterday. No one came forward to “claim them” or let me know they got them for me….but when I got the order, your name was on the billing info, so I have your real name but no idea what your screen name is lol. I’m going to assume you wish to remain anonymous, so I won’t call you out, but wanted to say thank you for the sunglasses! They’re super cute and I LOVE Betsey Johnson gear…love love love them! I took a couple pictures for you, but please feel free to step forward and let me know you got them for me if you want If not, I understand.

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